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Confession Time: As honest as I can be and with regret I have to inform you that I never read a book in high school. I passed every class, did quite well and wrote papers on books I never read. Yes, I was that kid who could talk and write for hours on a book I never read. I spent more time figuring out a way around the book than actually reading the book. While I did well and everything seemed to work out, I regret not putting the effort needed into reading.

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Every day I sit down with a cup of coffee or warm tea and let my imagination take control as I read for hours on a variety of subjects. Who knew that I would find delight in something I constantly tried to avoid through my school career? Oh yeah, my parents! They encouraged me to read every week, but their encouragement went in one ear and gradually trickled out the other side.

Francis Bacon is credited as saying,

Read, not to contradict or confute, nor to believe and take for granted, nor to find talk and discourse, but to weigh and consider. Some books are to be tasted, others to be swallowed, and some few to be chewed and digested.”

(Robert J. Morgan, Nelson’s Complete Book of Stories, Illustrations, and Quotes, electronic ed. (Nashville: Thomas Nelson Publishers, 2000). 656.)

Even the apostle Paul found importance in books. Consider his words during his imprisonment he asked for the books and the parchments! Of all things to ask for while sitting in prison he asked for books and  parchments. Not chocolate cake with a baked in metal file, but the books!

“When you come, bring the cloak that I left with Carpus at Troas, also the books, and above all the parchments.”

The Holy Bible : English Standard Version. (Wheaton: Standard Bible Society, 2001). 2 Ti 4:13.

My regrets in not reading have fueled my fire in trying to read as much as I can each day. Reading not only captures the mind, but it produces ideas for further study. As children, each of us had imaginations which kept us busy all day. Seldom in the DadandAlexisReadingsummer were we in front of the television, the Atari, or in bed. Our parents forced us outside into the heat of the day and we let our imaginations take over.

As we have become adults, our imaginations fade with the stark reality of a world full of bills, work and chores. We have left the timeless imaginations of our youth and adopted a negativity that we loathed as children. We have become what we never said we would! We have eaten our words so fast, we never knew what we were eating. Are we reading to change? Are we ready to expand our imaginations once more?

Reading not only expands our minds but it creates a focus on learning. As we read, our minds are taken to the next level. Granted, we must move beyond the Dr. Seuss books into higher reading, but as we read we grow. As we read, we challenge ourselves, because not everyone thinks like we do.

Here are some Tips on Reading from a Reformed Non-Reader:

  1. Schedule time for reading – If you do not make time, you will not find the time. Everyone complains about being too busy, but we always make time for what we enjoy. Make time for reading.
  2. Read material you disagree with from time to time – Every now and then, read material that brings you out of your comfort zone. Let the words of the author challenge you to consider your opinion and defend your position. Challenging yourself is a step toward powerful growth.
  3. Keep a notebook handy – As you read, ideas will flow through your mind, but do not let your ideas get you off-track. Write down your ideas or quotes from your reading in a notebook and then go back to reflect on them after you read.
  4. Put your reading into practice – For everything we take into our minds, we must use it before it settles in the back corner and begins to develop cobwebs. After you read, share an idea with family, a friend or post it to the internet for others to comment on. Use your knowledge immediately.
  5. Read Aloud – I know it will sound like you are reading to your imaginary friend, but it works. Each one of us thinks out loud sometimes and the words seem to come out clearer, why not read a portion out loud and see if you understand it better?
  6. Read to Your Children – Schedule time to read to your children and do it! Do not read with boring monologue; instead, read with emotions, make up voices and sounds. Your children will grasp the words of the text more, and who knows, you may too.
  7. Volunteer – If you have small children in school, talk to their teacher about coming in and reading to the children. You can also talk to the school and get in their reading mentoring program. Each week, you can spend one hour helping out a young person and see them grow throughout the year.
  8. Establish a Reading Program in Your Congregation – I know of several congregations take the children in a classroom and spend 15 – 20 minutes before services reading to them then asking them what they just listened too. Expanding reading into our congregation will be a beneficial way to see our young people flourish.

 

Some of My Favorite Books:

  • The Bible (of course)
  • Various John Maxwell books:
    • Attitude 101
    • Failing Forward
    • Developing the Leaders Around You
    • Winning With People
    • Maxwell 3-in-1 Special Edition (The Winning Attitude / Developing the Leaders Around You / Becoming a Person of Influence)
    • Your Roadmap for Success
  • Preaching with Freshness by Bruce Mawhinney
  • Three John MacArthur Books:
    • Ashamed of the Gospel
    • Twelve Ordinary Men
    • Hard to Believe

There are many others I could mention, but the list would be extremely long. I encourage you to begin your own reading list and keep those books coming!

Consider this final thought,”

“Poor people have big TVs, rich people have libraries.” – Brian Tracy

 

Just some thoughts,

Chris

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I review for Thomas Nelson Book Review Bloggers

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I am a subscriber to Annemarie Segaric’s email newsletter and I would encourage you to do the same. The information she provides is a great encouragement and motivation. She also challenges your mind to think differently than you have before. Enjoy this new article from Annemarie Segaric.

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* What You Need to Learn from Susan Boyle *

 

Ok, first watch this clip: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9lp0IWv8QZY

Seriously, watch it first! 

 

Ok, so what are you thinking? What are you feeling?

What dream do you have sitting within your heart that you are not pursuing? What is your true life’s purpose that you are not expressing?
Here’s what Susan is here to share with you besides her AMAZING voice:

  1. You are never too old to follow your dream. Enough said.
  1. You don’t have to do things the way everyone else says you have to do them. You don’t have to look like anyone else. You don’t have to be like anyone else. For you to be successful you need to be YOU. Yes, you can model others but you ultimately need to make your dreams come true the way YOU are supposed to make them come true.
  1. What we are looking for often comes packaged differently than we expected. Don’t let opportunities that sometimes look like obstacles trick you into turning them down. No one expected that voice to come out of the person they saw on stage. Imagine if Susan let that stop her…

When you uncover what your true purpose is in life—and really feel the meaning behind it—you ignite the fire to make that purpose a reality. You are constantly surrounded by opportunities to live your purpose but you turn them down without even realizing it. Often it’s because to take advantage of the opportunity it would force you to be uncomfortable, take a risk, or step out into the limelight in some fashion.

Is the discomfort of needing to stretch yourself so painful that your dream—your true life’s purpose—is not worth pursuing?

Let Susan Boyle be your model from now on.

Call To Action:

  1. What are you being called to do with your life? It’s right in front of you. Name the things, opportunities, and “coincidences” that keep showing up in your life
  2. Stop ignoring them! Start keeping track of the ways the Universe/Spirit/God/your intuition are guiding you.
  3. Do that very next thing that frightens you but gets you one step close to your life’s dream.

You can do this. I believe in you.

And if you’re thinking, “I could do this so much easier with some support,” you’re absolutely right! According to author Caroline Myss, we grow at the rate of the people we surround ourselves with. Join The Career Changer Club™, an exclusive membership based community for professionals who want to uncover their purpose and career of their dreams. Join us and watch yourself leap into a new career this year! Visit www.careerchangerclub.com.

 

Annemarie Segaric is a nationally recognized career change coach, motivational speaker, and the author of the book, Step into the Right Career: 107 Tips for Changing Your Career While Still Paying the Bills. Ready to switch careers and don’t know where to begin? Visit http://www.thecareerchanger.com and download your own fr*ee career changer toolkit today

Copyright© 2009 Annemarie Segaric The Career Changer Company

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